THE GULEVICH IN CANADA AND
RUSSIA: REUNITED AFTER 30 YEARS Being large and numerous the Gulevich family is spread all over the world. It is not an
exaggeration but a fact. If try to count all the Gulevich we should inevitably
look at many countries – Germany, Israel, Serbia, Poland, the United States,
Lithuania, Ukraine, Russia, etc. As for me I have found my distant relatives in
Canada, Ontario province. They were the members of our large family we have
heard nothing about during the last 30 years. By a stroke of luck our
pictures were placed near each other on the Gulevich Family Club page. But
anyway a couple of years elapsed before I have realized we could be somehow
related. Not once I entered the page and not once I have seen the picture of
our Canadian relatives but refused to believe that the smiling women on the
picture could be the members our family whose ancestry came from Kemerovo
region (Siberia, Russia) and after long vicissitudes was brought to the Canadian
soil. It happened during WWII when a
Soviet soldier Anton Gulevich got a concussion of brain and was captured by
the Nazis. Then he had to overcome horrible ordeals to survive and bring his
children to the world. Now we can say we are proud of him because he is
honored in his motherland. His name can be found in Kemerovo memory book
where are enumerated all WWII veterans. Under Anton`s
photo is written “Lost in action”. But he was not lost. He managed to come
through. Anton
Gulevich with his grandson Frankie. Unfortunately, not all of us can enjoy communicating
with them. Much time has passed and the oldest have already left us. It is a
real pity because their memoirs could help us a lot and bring more light to
the days when our family has split. Nobody is to be blamed because we are not
omnipotent and not everything depends upon us. Now except the long distance
we have another barrier – language difference. French and English spoken in
Canada are of no avail in continental Siberia as well as Russian is of no use
in Canada. Living in different countries and having the Atlantic between us
we are now two different but still related branches of one and the same
family which is becoming rather exotic while now we have not only Russians
and Canadians among us but also people of Chile origin. The most important and touching though is the fact
that after 30 year long silence we managed to find and hear each other. This
event changed my life somehow. I began to realize more cutely the importance
of such phenomena as human memory, spiritual inheritance and the subtle
feeling of speeding time. Unfortunately, more often the opposite happens.
People stay indifferent, lazy or too easy going to take care for such things
as searching the relatives. The whole layers of family inheritance are thrown
into oblivion having no chance to revive. It means a great part of family
legend is forgotten for ever and a great part of family roots are lost. A tree without roots does not survive. A human being
is sometimes stronger and can survive even without family roots. But is such
way of life spiritually useful for us and not only for us but also for our
children who depend on us not only financially but spiritually as well? It is
a rhetoric question. No answer needed. Modern life does not help us to go deep into our
ancestry notwithstanding the technological tools we have at our disposal. On
the contrary, our civilization makes us more inclined to separate from others
because this civilization is a civilization of individuals. In Latin individum meant not divided. And we are real individuals because we prefer not
divide our feelings or our memories with the others. We are all alone. There is only 1% of all Gulevich registered on the
web site. I hope it is only the beginning and more Gulevich will come. The
sociologists say archaic folks are more dedicated to their ancestry memories
and used to know their ancestry hundreds years back. The same do the Mormons
in Utah state. I would like to believe that the Gulevich will set
them an example how to follow ancestry back more than hundreds years. For
that we need just a trifle – being more active and more scrupulous. Vladislav Gulevich. |